If you’re calling the devil’s plans for your life God’s plan (death, sickness, pain, and suffering), you have a warped understanding of God’s love.

Yes, God can help you know his presence in the midst of your suffering.
Yes, you can grow closer to God in the midst of your pain, because you need everything he has for you more than ever.
But he’s never the cause of stealing, killing, destroying.

Those things are exactly what Jesus came to end (John 10:10).